tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35354524462623579622024-03-08T19:49:42.966+08:00I Wan @ SiMpLe LiFe@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.comBlogger261125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-38957422339297975412011-03-04T11:14:00.007+08:002011-03-04T12:19:55.357+08:00What Are Words超傻的,一大早竟然重复听着同一首歌。<br />因为不想让这种感动的感觉消失。<br /><br />有时候,一首歌不一定要很震撼,也不一定要很动听,<br />只要唱的人很用心,小小的背后故事,就可以很感动。<br />Chris Medina,这个名字很陌生,<br />但他的故事打从上几个星期电视播放新季American Idol时就让我留下印象。<br />曾许下的承诺不论发生什么事情都还是一生一世的承诺。<br />对另一半而言,每一句承诺都是有意义的。<br />每一个承诺都必须去履行的。<br />(就好像昨晚答应要为她准备<a href="http://altramannbreakfast.blogspot.com/">早餐</a>,今早就一大早爬起来那样)<br />相信这就是真爱的力量吧!<br /><br />Medina的故事感动了音乐制作人Rodney Jerkins,并给了他灵感制作这首歌《What is words》。<br />《What is words》is a song about making promises and fulfilling them,<br />about telling someone you love that you'll be there and having them be able to count on you because you said it.<br />Because the words that you say really mean something.<br />It's a powerful song.<br /><br />You are truely amazing.<br />I am so touched after watching your video.<br />Your fiance is a gorgeous girl and is so lucky to have someone like you in her life.<br />You are such an inspiration.<br />You truely show what love is all about.<br />Good luck in whatever you do, and please keep singing.<br />You are amazing guy!!<br /><br /><iframe title="YouTube video player" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/nQY4dIxY1H4" frameborder="0" width="640"></iframe><br /><br />Anywhere you are, I am near<br />Anywhere you go, I'll be there<br />Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see<br />How every single promise I keep<br />Cuz what kind of guy would I be<br />If I was to leave when you need me most<br /><br />What are words<br />If you really don't mean them<br />When you say them<br />What are words<br />If they're only for good times<br />Then they don't<br />When it's love<br />Yeah, you say them out loud<br />Those words, They never go away<br />They live on, even when we're gone<br /><br />And I know an angel was sent just for me<br />And I know I'm meant to be where I am<br />And I'm gonna be<br />Standing right beside her tonight<br />And I'm gonna be by your side<br />I would never leave when she needs me most<br /><br />What are words<br />If you really don't mean them<br />When you say them<br />What are words<br />If they're only for good times<br />Then they don't<br />When it's love<br />Yeah, you say them out loud<br />Those words, They never go away<br />They live on, even when we're gone<br /><br />Anywhere you are, I am near<br />Anywhere you go, I'll be there<br />And I'm gonna be here forever more<br />Every single promise I keep<br />Cuz what kind of guy would I be<br />If I was to leave when you need me most<br />I'm forever keeping my angel close@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-57606945388767717852011-02-27T23:17:00.002+08:002011-02-28T13:56:38.169+08:00‘记性差’是为了让自己内疚少一点又来到星期日了,答应这个礼拜交货的我到现在还没开始动笔!<br />看起来很有责任感,工作又很认真的我,其实记性真的很差!<br />有时候用电脑同时进行几样工作,就会忘记之前自己做了什么!<br />有时候讲话讲到一半,也会忘了自己到底想表达什么?<br />偶尔生病的时候,更会忘了吃药(特地忘记的,讨厌吃药!)<br />更夸张的,明明结了婚还会忘了自己的另一半<br />(这边指的并不是我到处沾花惹草,而是我会忽略她的感受和忘了安排时间陪她。)<br /><br />今天的时间我又安排给了青运。<br />青运一年一度的代表大会终于在今天顺利完成。<br />青运仁嘉隆支会新届理事也在今天产生。<br />主要的职位没有多大变化,<br />最大的变化应属委员阵容。<br />在11名委员中,出现了9个新脸孔。<br />恭喜第一次进入理事阵容的同志。<br />接下来的两年就靠你们了!<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5578604911917782594" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-JkQm6fmY_JY/TWsvnFUb1kI/AAAAAAAADys/trsQgATCjjQ/s400/aIMG_1964.jpg" />至于青运县会的事情。。。<br />我还是选择暂时忘记。<br />不想给自己太多压力。<br />不想说太多话。<br />现在这个年纪,不时会回想十年前或更久之前的事情。<br />发现要维持热情,比放弃一件事情更不容易! <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5578607947062464082" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oQFSQoxOV3A/TWsyXwHUTlI/AAAAAAAADy0/8cQgNCtJjto/s400/aIMG_1999.jpg" />晚间时间原本安排出席弟弟毕业典礼后陪老婆看电影。<br />最后变成毕业典礼后,逛街买东西。<br />对不起,老婆。<br />我们又看不成电影了!<br />看!很多时候总是计划比不上变化。<br />也许要等到有一天,在没有特地安排下我们才有机会一起到电影院看戏。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-31950078477185374272011-02-24T14:29:00.008+08:002011-02-28T13:57:34.575+08:00同性恋人<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5577160739958712354" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wcCiVl1s05Q/TWYOJNh-aCI/AAAAAAAADwg/abY_w7yeQno/s400/100589915.jpg" />新年期间,大伙忙于拜年。<br />除了聚在一起吃喝玩乐(包括赌博),<br />无聊时大家免不了会谈起八卦,或说难听点的就是道人是非。<br />其实这并不算罪过,毕竟天下乌鸦一般黑,你不说别人亦会说你,那何罪之有?<br />道人是非,只要不让当事人知道,其实也算是一件蛮刺激的活动!<br /><br />说回最近四周听到的八卦:<br />最近最劲爆的八卦非‘蕾丝边’莫属。<br />说真的,我身边不乏同性恋的人物出现。<br />但为什么最近这个话题会成为热门新闻呢?<br />原因很简单,我们这卦朋友中出现一对这样的情侣。<br />再次先声明,我并没有歧视同性恋者。<br />但还不知道我会不会支持。<br />(因为不想把话说得太早,毕竟这个事情没发生在自己家里,所以不能一口断定自己是支持的) 我还是保持中立想法。<br /><br />时常在想,为什么他们会喜欢同性?是先天还是后天?<br />出生在新村里,成长于传统的华人家庭,<br />当他们确定自己性向后,接下来的生活应该怎样?<br />毕竟他们选择了和别人不一样的路。<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 303px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5577162852766307186" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-aHl-BeVITPM/TWYQEMWj03I/AAAAAAAADwo/0o-Us0L79cY/s400/2006128163510462.jpg" />我曾经尝试站在他们的立场来思考。<br />一箩筐的问题马上涌入脑里:<br />(1)要如何和家人交待?<br />(2)要如何和朋友说?<br />(3)感情稳定后需要公开结婚吗?<br />(4)可不可以领养小孩?<br />相信这些都是住在马来西亚同性恋者的烦恼吧!<br />这些烦恼都是苦恼于自己的以后,家人,社会。。。<br />真的是比普通恋情来得困难。<br /><br />一位同性友人曾告诉我,<br />他也想和普通人一样,拍拖,结婚,生小孩。<br />但偏偏就是天意弄人,他就是对异性没兴趣。<br /><br />我也不知道应该说什么。<br />但,<br />站在他们的立场,<br />如果纯属爱一个人,那当然是没有错的。<br />选择和同性在一起的同时,<br />应尽量把伤害减到最低(指的是对家人的伤害,因为不是每个家庭都接受这种恋情)。<br />只要大家好好生活(一些同性恋者不能接受世人非一般的眼光而选择了结生命)<br />尝试爱自己多一点就行了。<br />至少你现在活得开心。<br />毕竟自由还是属于你的。<br />不管你的性取向是什么,只要用心爱过,<br />虽然遇到百般阻扰,但仍愿意为对方付出认真生活。。。<br />未来幸不幸福,who cares?<br /><div>但我还是祝你们幸福。 </div>@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-46537210655476396562011-02-22T02:07:00.002+08:002011-02-23T15:13:06.675+08:00Lets get it start!!<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-4hGgxBx7ERs/TWSuW7duJKI/AAAAAAAADwI/2gMksiKOXsM/s1600/aDSC00109.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576773947534222498" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-4hGgxBx7ERs/TWSuW7duJKI/AAAAAAAADwI/2gMksiKOXsM/s400/aDSC00109.jpg" /></a>说来惭愧,已经好长一段时间没上来这里。<br /><div>就算上来也没留下任何脚印。</div><div>对不起,我的部落格。</div><div>这些日子我的却很忙。</div><div>忙得一天24小时都不够用。</div><div>现在的我更是夜鬼一个,每天不到半夜2点钟都不会上床睡觉。</div><div>我想是时候做出些些改变。</div><div><div>除了早睡,我应该继续之前的想法,把生活的点点滴滴都记录下来。</div><div>好让将来的我可以从部落格里回味曾经的一切。</div><div></div><br /><div>进入人生的新阶段,感觉自己成长了不少。</div><div>现在的我更积极生活,更珍惜时间,更懂得体谅。</div><div>两个人的生活是一种挑战,但我就是喜欢。</div><div>这种感觉证明我之前的担心都是多余的。</div><div>喜欢和你在一起谈心的感觉。</div><div></div><div>偷偷告诉你,</div><div>每天早上当你去上班时,</div><div>我竟然会不自觉地喜欢床上你留下的余温和气味。</div><div>很傻吧!</div><div>感觉这是不像我的我!</div></div><br />说到床,以前都是一个人睡着双人床,<br />床上有我亲切的枕头和抱枕,柔软的被单,<br />每天抱着他们入睡的感觉是多么的舒服。<br />还记得某某晚上感觉无聊,特地睡在中间,然后用身体任摆不同的英文字母。<br />自己会心一笑,原来一个人在床上也可以独享乐趣。<br />但是,<br />一个人的双人床,<br />明显感觉少了些温度和温暖!<br />又或者少了些安全感,导致每天醒来的早晨总会缩得像蚕宝宝一样。<br />告别一个人的双人床,<br />感觉至少是幸福的。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-71445712174240442602011-02-21T13:43:00.000+08:002011-03-04T14:48:28.826+08:00云游记This is the first local outing after our wedding.<br />We went up to Genting Highland during the weekend holiday.<br />Genting highland is the place always in dear's place to go list.<br />I think she was excited of what's in for her up at the highlands, and wanting to try everything out specially have a cup of coffee at starbuck!<br />Hang there with a bunch of friends for one night and doing nothing but take photos.<br />Our plan to watch a movie was changed to just hanging out indoor. Walk blindly in the First World Plaza and amaze with the festive decoration around there.<br /><br />we were enveloped with the cool mountain air.<br />The wind at this elevation was brisk, and fog swirls all around us.<br />This is the very good time to sit down and have a cup of hot drink.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 246px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580104927262762818" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Apr64MTZ5oQ/TXCD3d7nZ0I/AAAAAAAADzc/P94pOdpw5cI/s400/aIMG_1612.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580106310612047234" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VRg_VXhV7GA/TXCFH_TyVYI/AAAAAAAADzs/9FMt3VkfC60/s400/aIMG_1636.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580105192145815266" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-MXyXMEEFJts/TXCEG4sqBuI/AAAAAAAADzk/ToM1Vow0AYg/s400/aIMG_1624.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580107076974758098" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WZG2esziGqE/TXCF0mO5SNI/AAAAAAAADz0/Fjor2r6jrX4/s400/aIMG_1643.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580109597540711874" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pcAinhMZMsc/TXCIHUEpfcI/AAAAAAAADz8/eas0bPNLFWc/s400/aIMG_1792.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580111551885798194" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hXYZkIC5BF8/TXCJ5Ek06zI/AAAAAAAAD0M/qZViG6lj0CI/s400/aIMG_1863.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580110741777220354" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_Mu1DxraqYU/TXCJJ6r5AwI/AAAAAAAAD0E/Id2ivDlSqMU/s400/aIMG_1859.jpg" /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Mmn1EzSSkL8/TXCKEJxR8-I/AAAAAAAAD0U/S_n9cJ0QpIU/s1600/aIMG_1883.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580111742258770914" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Mmn1EzSSkL8/TXCKEJxR8-I/AAAAAAAAD0U/S_n9cJ0QpIU/s400/aIMG_1883.jpg" /></a>@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-9022910435932252362011-01-28T13:52:00.001+08:002011-03-04T12:23:12.451+08:00爱情从天掉下来?慢慢等!<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gkpZtcqgOVs/TWX5Ozq0ZdI/AAAAAAAADwY/aoEEXBW3FvM/s1600/16971_540.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5577137746351515090" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gkpZtcqgOVs/TWX5Ozq0ZdI/AAAAAAAADwY/aoEEXBW3FvM/s400/16971_540.jpg" /></a> 现在的我超想骂粗口的。。。<br />·#—*@&!+<br />我也不知该说你没胆(Chicken),懦弱还是想太多。,,<br />还是你跟本没有把握而无法放胆去做,<br />Come on! 你是男人耶!<br />你到底知不知道什么叫爱?<br />你到底爱她有多深?<br />爱一个人不是想要拥有她吗?<br />为何一而再,再而三的拖!<br />亏你还好意思说给我听!<br />如果我是那个女的,我想我会当场抓狂!<br /><br />唉!算啦。。。<br />皇上不急,太监急个屁啊!<br />我还是放松心情,好好享受我的二人世界吧!<br /><br />但我还是忍不住。。。<br />想了又想,最后帮你想了一个很好的借口!<br />这一切只能怪你是一个很有耐性的家伙(或对爱情有严重洁癖的人)。<br />虽然看中对的人,你还是会选择慢慢观察。<br />你并不像精神病院的患者,想做什么就做,完全不顾后果。(帮你想得很周到吧!)<br />有些时候(尤其是寂寞的时候或恋爱的季节),你就会开始犯贱。<br />开始对她有反应或感觉 ,但往往顾虑到《未来》发展,<br />你不得不止步好好去想想到底你们适不适合?<br /><br />发完牢骚了,<br />幸福是你的,还是留给你‘慢慢’(指的绝对是你的性格)做决定。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-49184580982173415062010-10-18T15:36:00.002+08:002010-10-24T18:09:58.701+08:00新加坡印象<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531548198983519986" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMQBx5JdTvI/AAAAAAAADps/GP-3IaXnFaQ/s400/16102010213.jpg" />短短的两天行程一下子就过了。<br />现在我的脚是酸到不行。<br /><br />对于这次的新加坡之旅并没做很多的准备。<br />不用预约酒店,不用特别安排任何行程。<br />就连背包也是临搭飞机前几小时才随便收拾打包。<br /><br />一大早的飞机令人十分吃不消。<br />六点十五分的飞机让我被逼要半夜四点多起床。<br />嘴巴不停地嘀咕:“干嘛要订这么早的飞机!”<br />相信身边的娜也不能Tahan我的唠唠叨叨。<br /><br />到达新加坡还是早上,心情没有很兴奋。<br />同时也十分没有胃口。<br />‘老巴刹’并没想像中的老,只是有些许英式殖民风格。<br />‘老巴刹’并没传说中卖很多美食,但大家还是吃了昂贵的早餐!<br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMQCHfOrJhI/AAAAAAAADp0/SVrxJbeMWwQ/s1600/16102010208.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531548569983198738" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMQCHfOrJhI/AAAAAAAADp0/SVrxJbeMWwQ/s400/16102010208.jpg" /></a> 离开‘老巴刹’沿着Marina Bay行走,顶着大大的太阳,大家都汗流浃背。<br />穿过一栋栋摩天大楼,脚踩着原本是海现在已成陆地的填海地区(滨海湾),欣赏时尚且艺术的高楼大厦。<br />不一会儿,看到了新加坡最新的旅游景点-金沙酒店。<br />找个树阴的长凳坐下,欣赏这里一切的人造美。<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531546891784860818" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMQAlzdAtJI/AAAAAAAADpc/NxJeaUqb6g0/s400/16102010209.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 224px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531546408011106178" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMQAJpQXB4I/AAAAAAAADpU/N-fF2qNwW4E/s400/16102010232.jpg" />小休完毕,继续前进,耳朵传来阵阵的水声,我们来到了新加坡河口。<br />美丽的狮头鱼尾像出现眼前,这是新加坡的标志和象征。<br />穿梭在游客群中,我们当然不放过拍照留念的机会。<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531547269767569218" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMQA7zjHH0I/AAAAAAAADpk/4mxzzzFqSYY/s400/16102010218.jpg" /><br />强烈的大太阳并没有阻止我们继续探索新加坡河一带的兴致。<br />一行八人继续前往新加坡英殖民地标性建筑物做多的地带,这里也是新加坡重要的金融和商业中心。<br />途中经过旧国会大厦艺术之家、维多利亚剧院、新加坡板球俱乐部、最高法院和政府大厦和许多英殖民地色彩浓厚的豪华酒店。<br />来到这里当然没错过莱佛士爵士最早登陆新加坡的地方。<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 303px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531545218483752626" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP_EZ68DrI/AAAAAAAADo8/ROnCasi6KIs/s400/aaa3.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 212px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531544759545442098" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP-psPhLzI/AAAAAAAADo0/SoBu0ODmu_U/s400/aaa4.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 303px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531545575648818178" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP_ZMdudAI/AAAAAAAADpE/Vy8MvdtrQ60/s400/aaa2.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 303px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531545944717830226" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP_urWoqFI/AAAAAAAADpM/RATwfcAyx54/s400/aaa1.jpg" />到达新加坡新地标-‘榴莲’新加坡滨海艺术中心Esplanade Theatres已是中午,又是时间找吃。<br />走进艺术中心附近的商场,感觉凉快许多。<br />在这里医饱肚子和闲逛了几小时,大家决定参加‘鸭子之旅’<br />乘搭鸭子船可以让我们到达世界第一高摩天轮-Singapore Flyer。<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531542769261087074" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP8112wCWI/AAAAAAAADok/FARaXHzCdPI/s400/16102010226.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531542472458988882" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP8kkLnbVI/AAAAAAAADoc/crE1HBcGjjQ/s400/16102010234.jpg" />这种交通工具可以在陆地走,也可以在水上游。<br />从新达城开始,穿过公园到达河里。<br />沿着新加坡河口,一栋栋新加坡的高楼大厦尽收眼里。<br />全程还有解说员一路为我们介绍新加坡和沿途的建筑物<br />(但大家都好像当他透明的,而他也十分敬业,‘自己讲,自己爽’)<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531542033608296338" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP8LBVdR5I/AAAAAAAADoU/RQBeJeW21Hc/s400/16102010236.jpg" />傍晚时分,我们选择到Bugis一带逛逛。<br />狭窄的走到挤满的人群,这里是年轻人爱逛的地方。<br />便宜的年轻且时尚服饰和用品应有尽有,但我选择不买东西,只在这里走走看看。<br />晚餐又是在商场Food Court解决,昂贵又不好吃。<br />这次的新加坡行要感谢‘薇’两夫妇的慷慨,让我们借宿他们的家。<br />好久没和她聊得这么夜了,同时也‘八’了不少八卦。<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531541662332304898" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP71aOXPgI/AAAAAAAADoM/05QW1HnZCc4/s400/17102010240.jpg" />第二天的天气刚好和第一天相反。<br />早上醒来就听到隆隆的打雷声,天空开始下起雨来。<br />原本打算八点出门的我们延迟到十点才开始行程。<br />来到Universal Studio已经是接近下午十二点了。<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531541048975278242" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP7RtSpwKI/AAAAAAAADoE/y1-LHQu_zv4/s400/17102010243.jpg" />今天的天气好的不得了,整天都阴阴凉凉的。<br />在这里,我们走走停停,玩玩看看,拍照聊天,时间也过得很快。<br />Universal Studio并没想像中好玩,游戏设施不够完善,主题公园和活动也比DisneyLand逊色很多。<br />$72的票价还是稍嫌贵了很多。<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 303px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531543828474700786" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP9zfu9I_I/AAAAAAAADos/uVxkGQt_S6k/s400/aaa5.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531539926275512658" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP6QW6K2VI/AAAAAAAADn8/D2UJ8pKs_7c/s400/17102010249.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531539420903188178" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP5y8QBJtI/AAAAAAAADn0/cbDK3fmSUok/s400/17102010253.jpg" />临走前发生了赶搭飞机的事件让大家都捏了把冷汗。<br />或许这会是大家在新加坡之旅最难忘的吧!<br />气喘喘地上了飞机,就这样我们结束了新加坡之旅。<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531535203872687602" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP19elmRfI/AAAAAAAADns/MAaCcg5Ng-4/s400/17102010241.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5531533541820351554" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TMP0cu9cREI/AAAAAAAADnU/BUM9y71eqt4/s400/17102010256.jpg" />@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-35081009561384541062010-10-01T10:54:00.001+08:002010-11-01T11:12:08.019+08:00我不信星座无意间看到这个以星座来分析恋爱的报导。<br />不信星座的我看到这个心跳突然加速。在讲我吗?<br /><br />处女座在感情当中很容易默默奉献,变成一个地位卑下的小男人或小媳妇,这是一种为了恋爱而努力的表现,而面对不想被捆住的射手座,处女座的奉献和牺牲只会被觉得是多余的。<br /><br />解套方案:<br />只要把心思放回到自己身上,感情就可以变得相当的顺利,要记得先把自己打点好,对方就会更加的爱你,只要处女座很开心,状况很好,感情就会很美满,太过去奉献只会让对方觉得太过廉价而不知道好好珍惜呢!<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 388px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 120px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5534413688734050530" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TM4v7WUNaOI/AAAAAAAADuk/1BOcPa6x0to/s400/vss.jpg" />@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-1702052340017435102010-08-23T13:47:00.002+08:002010-08-23T13:58:46.656+08:00自我反省!这一次真的觉得自己很失败。<br />这件事情的结局不应该这样的!<br />但偏偏故事就是这样发展。<br /><br />‘第一次’不能作为借口!<br />要怪就怪自己的态度!<br /><br />自己的态度?<br />太善良?所以才被人欺?<br />做事不够积极?所以才被人家有机可趁?<br />懦弱?所以没为自己平反?<br />被宠惯了?所以每件事都要别人解决?<br />太自以为是?所以认为事情总会‘船到桥头自然直’?<br /><br />希望这次的教训可以让你反省自己!@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-73494686913136900762010-08-20T23:11:00.000+08:002010-08-22T01:31:40.939+08:00不舍得离开今天,<br />真的很忙。<br />忙着搬‘家’。<br />忙着‘寻宝’。<br />看看有什么东西可以搬到新‘家’。<br />*别误会,所谓‘新家’并不是我的新家,<br />而是我将把我的研究工作从原本的MARDI搬到马大实验室进行。<br /><br />心里有万般的不舍,毕竟在那里也已经三年多。<br />同时也不舍那里的同事。<br /><br />开始想念大家一起哈拉的日子。<br />开始想念那种得空就谈人家是非的日子。<br />开始想念偷偷背着老板上网看股票动向的日子。<br />开始想念在办公室/实验室里偷吃Non-Halal食物的日子。<br />开始想念星期五午休到很远很远地方风流快活的日子。<br /><br />怎么办?<br />算了吧!想也没有用。<br />天下没有不散的筵席。<br />亲爱的同事们,后会有期咯!<br />我会想念你们的。<br />记得多多联络哦。<br />哈哈!<br />当然会多联络,因为我特地留下很多东西在你们那里,<br />好让我有借口回去拿东西!<br /><br />大家记得开开心心工作,快快乐乐生活!@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-48311624795500204842010-08-18T23:45:00.004+08:002010-08-19T00:56:28.981+08:00StAy StRoNg GirLMandy,<br />Thank you for keep update me the condition of your mum this few months.<br />I know this is a hard time for you and your mum.<br />And feel so sorry to hear the news today.<br />That’s really tough news...<br />My deepest condolences to you and your family at this sad time.<br /><br />I hope you get the time you need to morn for your loss and may you take comfort in all the good memories you’ve shared with her throughout the years.<br />May your mum rest in peace.@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-56883297300311699802010-08-16T11:51:00.007+08:002010-08-17T00:39:42.064+08:00七夕的气息<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGlpvKhD9gI/AAAAAAAADm0/I24D8-hwDVE/s1600/kid.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 395px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506048278434936322" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGlpvKhD9gI/AAAAAAAADm0/I24D8-hwDVE/s400/kid.jpg" /></a><br />喜欢FB就是因为它会时常提醒我关于朋友的生日或一些重要的日子。<br />我自认对数字并没什么好感。<br />从小到大,只要有数字的东西,我都背不好。<br />数字比如车牌号码,电话号码,生日日期等等,<br />(包括Dear的电话号码--背死都记不到)<br />都会令我十分头痛。<br />但庆幸我还记得Dear的生日日期啦。<br /><br />言归正传,今早打开FB就看到很多朋友的status都写七夕情人节快乐。<br />对!今天是七夕情人节。<br />突然觉得FB到处充满浪漫的气息。<br />脑里第一出现的画面是牛郎和织女。。。<br />同时不自觉地从裤袋掏出手机,<br />发送了一个信息给Dear。<br />简单的几个字,代表我对你的感觉。<br />七夕节快乐!我爱你!<br /><br />同时也愿天下有情人终成眷属!<br />还没有另一半的,早日结束单身生活。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-60514475977430738852010-08-15T00:04:00.004+08:002010-08-17T00:33:23.121+08:00今天千万别梦见‘叉烧包’<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGloOXeQFiI/AAAAAAAADms/GB3wQtle9Ug/s1600/2127167_182444024_2.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 256px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506046615465498146" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGloOXeQFiI/AAAAAAAADms/GB3wQtle9Ug/s400/2127167_182444024_2.jpg" /></a><br />半夜,宁静的半夜。<br />房间只有桌灯亮着。<br />暗暗的,静静的。<br /><br />但脑海里一点都不平静,<br />都怪刚才上去青运看他们练手语。<br />现在一直在想着那些舞步。<br />真搞笑。<br />简单的动作,<br />自己做起来就绑手绑脚,手脚不协调。<br />搞到好象机器人/木头在跳舞。<br /><br />求神拜佛,今晚千万别让我梦见‘叉烧包’<br />讲到梦,让我想起现在是农历七月,鬼门关大开。。。<br />顺便求神拜佛,今晚千万别让我梦见‘鬼大哥’<br />拜托拜托!@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-26613221532198679272010-08-12T23:38:00.004+08:002010-08-13T14:43:47.673+08:00吃的苦中苦,方为人上人吃得苦中苦,方为人上人<br />这是老师在小学时期教我的,当然到现在还记得啦。<br />小时候总觉得这句话说得真好,<br />凡是只要肯努力,我们就会成功。<br />就连近来读的《孟子》里也提到<br />“故天将降大任于是人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,饿其体肤,空乏其身,行拂乱其所为,所以动心忍性,曾益其所不能。” <br /><br />随着年龄增长,就感觉这句话用在现在的时代好像有点不合时宜。<br />无可否认这句话个中的道理是对的,<br />正所谓:“天下没有白吃的午餐。”<br />很多东西都要经过努力争取才会得到。<br /><br />但,<br />眼看现今社会,很多东西不是你付出多少就一定会得到多少。<br />正如爱因斯坦说的:“99%努力+1%天赋=100%的成功,但99%的人成功都是靠那1%的天赋。”<br />这说明了,很多事情不是埋头苦干,就能成功。<br />除了努力,还要靠智慧。<br /><br />要懂得利用机会,找机会和把握机会。<br />自己没有的,或自己不会的,<br />就要懂得如何借力,借势以利用别人来得到自己想要的。<br /><br />成功<br />固然需要吃苦,<br />但别忘了思考为什么自己要受苦。<br />找到答案后,就记得马上行动。<br />因为不行动就只能永远吃着苦,做着人下人。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-69698499678806503692010-08-11T23:57:00.001+08:002010-08-12T00:59:22.922+08:00LaZy SwAnI know im supposed to get the 'work' done by today. <br />But I just couldn’t get down to work on it! <br />Where is my enthusiasm?<br />And also 'Focus'! <br />I really lost my focus!<br />I get overwhelmed.<br />The worst thing is probably not even starting on the effort to make a sentence on it and do any preparation. <br /><br />I am kind of filled with self-loathing right now...<br />Why am I so lazy?<br />I can feel the stress now. <br />And hope it could be my motivation to finish the 'work'.<br /><br />Why can't life be simple?@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-25032386727803511042010-08-10T23:50:00.002+08:002010-08-11T01:34:51.565+08:00当野蛮女友升级为野蛮老婆<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGGNnvhuLXI/AAAAAAAADmk/JTDjD1CYwQE/s1600/0603351350Sa.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 329px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503835933535776114" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGGNnvhuLXI/AAAAAAAADmk/JTDjD1CYwQE/s400/0603351350Sa.jpg" /></a><br />从他的谈话中,<br />我已经可以感受到火爆场面时常上演。<br />很久前就知道朋友老婆是出了名的野蛮,<br />听说可以和韩国的《我的野蛮女友》相媲美,<br />甚至可以说青出于蓝而胜于蓝。<br />(在这里先讲明我并没亲眼看到,是她老公自己讲的)<br /><br />听了他的故事,<br />心里浮现的问题是:<br />既然婚前已经知道女方的‘厉害’,为何还会有冲动踩进对方的陷阱?<br />难道男方想尝试挑战自己的极限,看看结婚后是否可以改变她的臭脾气?<br /><br />果然,婚后的日子还是没有改变。<br />更甚的是,火爆场面似乎有增无减,变本加厉。<br />中间总是轰轰闹闹几十回,甚至还用离婚做威胁。<br />但,很得意的是,<br />战争过后总是迎来风平浪静的时候。<br />两人又可和好如初,甜甜蜜蜜。<br /><br />无言。。。<br />我只能说:“你们真的很爱对方,只是可能用错方法。”<br /><br />两个属于火爆型的人凑在一起,‘火花四溅’。<br />在这样下去,我怕会变成当断不断必有后患。<br /><br />如果硬要这样的婚姻过下去,男人就必须继续忍咯。<br />时间或许可以改变一切。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-60349601951453339702010-08-09T23:55:00.006+08:002010-08-10T01:47:09.394+08:00LoW ProFiL的好还是HiGh ProFiL的好昨天友人问我关于结婚的筹备状况,<br />我回了他一句:“我们都是搞Low Profil的,都不喜欢搞到太高调!”<br />娜昨天向我发了很多牢骚,(其实,她很少会发我牢骚啦)<br />包括结婚请不请那些‘半生不熟’的朋友,<br />结婚不必太张扬(如果婚礼不是那些所谓的世纪婚礼)<br />婚宴请太多人,最后搞到不能招呼到每个人,婚宴会没意义等等。。。<br />讲完一大堆后,突然<br />问了句:“你有什么要发言,对我刚才讲的有什么不满?”<br />我回了句:“我没有什么不满啊!”亲爱的。<br /><br />我时常都认为你讲的话都很正确,只是很多时候碍于自己的大男人心理,<br />老是不肯听你讲的。<br />我了解你要表达的。<br />我有好好收进脑里。<br />谢谢你时常都和我分享你的想法。<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503467621363377442" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGA-pJw6ZSI/AAAAAAAADmc/QuawnLz2CQ0/s400/keep-a-low-profile.jpg" />说回Low Profil的事情,<br />其实,我个人认为大家有时真的有必要保持low profile。 <br />因为总觉得保持低调是一种美德(并没说高调的人没品德),<br />同时也是一种保护自己的方式。<br />想到这个问题,不尽让我联想起我身边的一位兄弟,<br />做很多事都喜欢搞得非常High Profil。<br />心想,他应该是我身边其中一个把FB‘利用’得最淋漓尽致的人。<br />什么事情都在FB高调宣布。<br />FB简直变成他的心情广播台。。。<br /><br />心想:“有时出风头未必是好事,高调的做法有时甚至会惹是生非,同时也会让自己难受。”<br />希望这些事情都不会发生在你身上,因为我了解你的出发点。<br />但劝你千万要记得:“太高调有时候会让人盲目,或忘了身边的其他人,或更恐怖的-看不到自己的自己。”@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-14216064162381789702010-08-08T23:30:00.003+08:002010-08-09T01:09:55.564+08:00'Baby' Full MoonIts a party night for the celebration of Baby's full moon.<br />For baby? <br />But he is just too 'small' to understand what is party...<br />Haha...<br />Actually, I think this party is meant for the newly parents...<br /> <br />Cousin's Baby is so fast approaching one month old.<br />And i think the most happiest person is the baby's mom who finish her confinement period.<br /><br />The confinement period is a traditional post-natal practice where the mom is confined to the home for one month after delivery of her baby. <br />Some moms will find it difficult due to the various routines and rules that have to follow. And some will find it very boring to just sit at home for one month.<br />Anyway, this is a good practice for the mom to restore the lost of blood, nutrients and energy after childbirth.<br /><br />Back to the party,<br />As usual, this is the time I can meet all my relatives.<br />We really have an enjoyable time, <br />Chit-chatting, wandering around, taste the foods and play with the 'small kids'.<br /><br />What's a party night for baby?<br />Oops...Its a party night for the newly daddy and mummy!@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-29474046051898683772010-08-07T23:40:00.005+08:002010-08-17T00:45:16.480+08:00一直‘哦!爱。爱。爱’<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGlquoynlYI/AAAAAAAADnE/kw1C32q-F-c/s1600/love.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506049368893396354" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TGlquoynlYI/AAAAAAAADnE/kw1C32q-F-c/s400/love.jpg" /></a>‘哦!爱。。。全民拥戴 高声歌颂爱。。。<br />希望站在舞台 喜欢要说出来<br />我因为我存在 口号是 哦哦 爱。。’<br /><br />这首轻快的歌曲到现在还一直在我脑海里徊响。<br />脑海里不停播放大伙排练手语的画面。<br />欢笑声,傻笑声,嬉笑声和叫喊声。<br />滑稽的画面让我到现在还会噗哧一笑。<br /><br />怀想中学时代也曾这样,一起排练手语舞蹈。<br />想当年大家就是有一股傻劲,<br />为了搞好一个生活营而废寝忘食。<br />那时的我们还自己设计舞步,天马行空。<br />现在回想起来还真佩服自己。<br /><br />虽然现在还年轻!<br />(哈哈,不认老)<br />但如果现在要我跳,<br />我总觉得绑手绑脚,<br />跳得很不自然。<br /><br />正如他们说的:“要放开尊严跳才会跳得自然。”<br />哈哈。。。<br />酱不是讲人家‘明老师’就是不顾尊严,才会跳得那么自然?<br /><br />无论如何,<br />开心看到手语带动舞蹈又‘回归’仁嘉隆青运。<br />希望不久的将来能栽培出带动高手。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-87223398418713634302010-08-05T23:34:00.002+08:002010-08-06T02:03:00.070+08:00人生短短几十年,我想通了。突然有害怕失去亲人的感觉<br />这种感觉是多么的可怕,是多么的恐怖。<br /><br />我最尊敬的叔叔<br />‘叔叔和我感情很好,我小学时就跟着他打工直到现在。他教会我很多人生道理,是他给我很多的正面指导。’<br />我真的希望你赶快好起来,<br />希望你会度过这一关。<br /><br />上个月就知道了这件事,<br />听了过后觉得震惊。<br />身边很多人想向我追问这件事,<br />而我也随意敷衍带过。<br />虽然我装作若无其事,或不当一回事,<br />但我知道我当时是害怕的,我是在乎的。<br />对,我当时选择逃避。<br />就连自己也不敢把当时的心情写在这里。<br /><br />我想告诉自己这不是真的,<br />我想当作什么事情也没发生过,<br />我甚至不敢去找他。<br />害怕再次听到不好的消息。<br /><br />经过了一段时间,知道现实还是现实,我骗不了自己,<br />我要接受这个事实。<br />我应该更关心他,为他祈祷,帮他度过这个难关。<br /><br />主动去探望他,<br />看到他脸色虽然有点憔悴,但心情还是保持开朗。<br />突然觉得惭愧,觉得自己很傻。<br />为什么很多事情都要选择逃避?<br />为什么我比他还要看不开?<br /><br />不愧是我最敬重的叔叔,还是那么的坚强。<br />我真的要向你多多学习。<br />有病故然难受,但一定要有信心,更积极面对。<br />时常保持乐观的态度,这样才会有斗志继续对抗病魔。<br /><br />希望你的病能赶快痊愈。<br />我会为你加油的!@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-49521967526312934052010-08-04T23:50:00.004+08:002010-08-05T01:37:32.824+08:00Its ReAL..No...Its A DrEaM!!<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 247px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501609548541344578" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TFmkvFG0O0I/AAAAAAAADeU/xExWrX0fdMI/s400/inception-poster1.jpg" />Watched 《Inception》 just now.<br />Before watching this movie, I've heard too many good reviews from FB.<br />Yeah! Its true......<br />It's truly a never see before movie!<br />And this esoteric movie for me is too good...<br />I like the creative idea and the filming strategy which make a full use on imaginary gravity.<br /><br />《Inception》<br />A science fiction movie about planting a memory in someone and stealing information from a person's subconscious.<br /><br />Actually I felt quite lost at the beginning.<br />(I should read the synopsis before watching this movie)<br />But I do enjoy the movie because of the unpredictable story line and the visual splendor.<br />《Inception》 can consider as a heist movie that features a team of people with the mission to planting a seed of idea in the subconscious of a CEO and make him believes the idea is thought of it himself.<br /><br />This movie can really make us into dream and confuse ourself.<br />Dear ask me at the middle of the movie said:" At which layer of dream are they in now." She is confused at that moment...<br />Me too! I doubt that my current life is real or just a dream.<br />The ending for this movie is very suspense.<br />And leave us to imagine and determined by ourselves...<br /><br />After the movie, I do have very much respect to the brilliant director, Christopher Nolan.<br />Thanks for your 'big idea' and you have successfully plant this movie into my mind.<br />I like it very much.<br />Until the end, I'm still confused.<br />I wonder, am I living in dreams? <div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 270px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501609974972516306" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TFmlH5r7h9I/AAAAAAAADec/GAE6033Fs50/s400/inception.bmp" /></div>@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-26344167883778914192010-08-04T12:29:00.006+08:002010-08-06T00:23:18.977+08:00我身边的男人很少会和朋友真正讨论爱情。<br />几个男人坐在路边摊到黑夜,<br />竟然第一次谈起爱情。<br /><br />何谓爱情?<br />我有爱请,但并不代表我完全明白爱情。<br />我有爱请,但并不代表有资格谈论爱情。<br />原因很简单:我是一个不合格的爱人。<br />努力尝试做个称职的情人,<br />但总觉得自己永远都做不够。<br /><br />友人觉得好男人永远得不到爱情。<br />是不是因为‘男人不坏,女人不爱’<br />还是因为其他原因?<br /><br />看到身边单身一族寻寻觅觅, 觅觅寻寻。<br />但就是脱离不了单身生活。<br /><br />第一个他 负责任,喜欢低调行事及沉默寡言<br />理应这样的男人在女人眼中应该是很man的,很神秘的,<br />这样的男人会让女人对他充满好奇及期待。<br />但是<br />他 喜欢想很多又太坚持步调<br />他坚持另一半年龄要小过自己,<br />他觉得自己赚不够钱去拍拖,<br />乍听之下,这样的他好像个大男人。<br />因为,<br />大男人要找个小女人,<br />大男人不让女人养自己。<br />但是,<br />我觉得这样的大男人背后是隐藏着自卑。<br />自卑心让他想很多,自卑心让他觉得自己不能让女人得到幸福。<br /><br />给这样的你,<br />真的别想太多啦,<br />以其有自卑心,不如有自信心。<br /><br />第二个他 闲适懒散,不拘小节和不修边幅<br />虽常把不在乎爱情挂在嘴边,但其实心里是想有个伴的。<br />要求过高或自视过高?<br />很难说个明白。<br />总觉得他不够坚韧,不够积极。<br />喜欢活在自己的世界。<br /><br />给这样的你,<br />别说什么都无所谓,认真看待每件事情。<br />很多事情不尝试,怎知道不行呢?<br />做个有肩膀的男人吧!<br /><br />第三个他 很和气,很温和,可以对女人一让再让<br />对很多女人来说,以上的这个男人简直完美。<br />但是<br />他容易沉溺在爱情中,对于爱情时常采取急进的态度。<br />这样的男人往往把女人吓跑。<br />对女人千依百顺的他是男人眼中的‘败类’<br />这样的他时常失去了自己的原则。<br /><br />给这样的你,<br />男人必须有自己坚守的基本原则<br />没有任何原则的男人,很容易成为没有骨气的男人<br />对于爱情,劝你还是慢慢来。<br />所谓:“有麝自然香”<br />尝试放慢脚步,让别人了解你的优点,<br />进而对你产生好感。<br /><br />第四个他 勇于表达心里所想<br />但还没直接表白 就开始觉得对方正在逃避<br />害怕撞墙?<br />最后决定放弃 开始用工作麻醉自己<br /><br />给这样的你,<br />被拒绝没什么丢脸 男人就应厚脸皮点<br />她不喜欢你 无所谓<br />但如果你还是喜欢她<br />应继续尝试 以得到她的欣赏<br />相信时间会证明一切<br />‘铁柱有一天也会磨成针’<br />祝你好运,朋友!<br /><br />不大懂爱情的竟然能在这里写了一大篇,<br />以上全都是纯属个人看法,随便写写,发发牢骚。<br />希望看者别太在意。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-16280552269987657412010-08-02T13:52:00.002+08:002010-08-02T15:09:58.426+08:00一年见一次的朋友喜欢她们够真,她们就是这么真。<br /><br />今天托‘崇腾’的福,我们再次见面。<br />(顺便在这里恭喜表弟和表弟媳,也祝你们的宝宝快高长大)<br /><br />说回FeiWen和Penny。。。<br />和她们认识于2002年。<br /><br />慧雯(FeiWen)<br />回忆当初第一次见她时,就对她留下深刻印象。<br />‘红毛’个性的她很容易就成为了我很‘亲’的朋友(因为每次见面她都会先来个拥抱)。<br />和她相识全因‘青运歌唱比赛’。<br />当年我是这个活动的筹委主席,而当时我又正物色主持人选。<br />通过勤逸(我另一位好友)介绍,我们就这样认识了。<br />还记得第一次载她来仁嘉隆新村的情景。<br />城市长大的她对很多我们乡下的东西都感到十分好奇。<br />看到路边的牛群也可让她惊叫及兴奋好久好久。<br />看到香蕉长在香蕉树上更可让她直喊:“你看,你看。。香蕉在树上耶!”<br />当时的我简直觉得她好像疯婆,但又觉得她很好玩。<br />每当她来到仁嘉隆,我都会带她吃肉骨茶。<br />就这样,我就被她标签为‘肉骨茶朋友’(这一点,我是昨天才知道的)<br />认识久了,每当看到她时,都会莫名其妙地和她疯在一起。<br />算一算,我们也认识了八年。。。<br />八年后的今天,她已在社会工作好几年,<br />再加上她于2008年当了北京奥运的义工。<br />人生经验丰富了许多。<br />她已不是当年那个傻里傻气,讲话高八度的傻妞了。<br />现在的她有了男友,男友更是加拿大人(很难得的一种缘分)。<br />现在的她思想成熟了许多,说起话来更有深度。<br />但有一样不变的,就是她的热情。<br />她还是那样有活力。<br />祝你:在不久的将来,可以完成你的梦想!<br /><br />Penny,<br />这位小妹是经FeiWen认识的,刚认识的时候印象中她好像有点胖胖。<br />当时FeiWen做司仪,而她就帮FeiWen拿包包,感觉好像FeiWen的跟班。<br />刚开始时,对Penny没有这么熟悉(可能因为她话不多)<br />相处了几次,对她也不再陌生,觉得她算是开朗的女孩。<br />随和的个性,一点都不做作。<br />近两次看到她,大家都觉得她瘦了,变得更有女人味了,也变得漂亮了。<br />目前单身的她对男女关系有‘恐惧’(我个人认为)<br />因为她告诉我她看到很多男人在外‘偷吃’的例子。<br />记得我当时是这样对她说的:“Penny,不是每个男人都是这样的。不如找一个仁嘉隆的,仁嘉隆的都是好男人!”(哈哈,自卖自夸)。<br />祝你:在不久的将来,可以找到你的另一半!<br /><br />短短的几小时聚会,我们做最多的就是吃!<br />我们早上吃了肉骨茶(见识到FeiWen的食量惊人)<br />下午到万津吃叉烧排骨云吞面和印度档Chendol。<br />我想我们下次见面应该会是在明年一月吧!<br />后会有期咯!<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500701611569895986" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TFZq-MUK2jI/AAAAAAAADYU/XPCR3tWy2GA/s400/ang.jpg" /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TFZrdu1QZ3I/AAAAAAAADYk/Nod6qDCxkQA/s1600/ang2.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500702153411422066" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ff5zLq5yPp4/TFZrdu1QZ3I/AAAAAAAADYk/Nod6qDCxkQA/s400/ang2.jpg" /></a>@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-72118571694150982822010-08-01T15:55:00.003+08:002010-08-01T17:49:01.248+08:00BacK to SeConDary ScHooLSlept very late yesterday but wake up very early this morning.<br />Glorious weather in the morning...<br />The sky is blue and the wind is blowing!<br />Yes, I made a right decision to attend my secondary school carnival today.<br /><br />The moment I stepped into the school, I was shocked because many things were changed.<br />More buildings in the school and make its external appearance totally different.<br />Less trees around the school area while more car parks now.<br />Really miss the school time.<br />I am still remember my secondary school days vividly...<br />The simple days.<br />Being a school prefect and wait in front of the gate every morning to record the name of late coming students.<br />Group discussions with classmates.<br />School competition and sport days.<br />Doing lab experiment especially mice dissection.<br />Organizing school camping and assemblies.<br />'Studying' in the library.<br /><br />--The old times are the best--<br /><br />Back to the topic<br />There are many stalls around the school which sell foods, drinks, plants and games.<br />Actually, I have nothing to do in the school. <br />Just walk around and see whether I can meet any old schoolmate or teacher that taught me before, but apparently not....<br />Just stay in the school for around an hour and went back for breakfast.<br /><br />if you could go back to secondary school time, what would you like to do?<br />I will cam-whore myself and my schoolmates at every corner of the campus.<br />Haha...Because I have very few secondary school photos in my photo album.@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3535452446262357962.post-88225599059917326662010-08-01T00:15:00.001+08:002010-08-01T02:43:56.791+08:00谁提议这样的派对?我就是要把它当成是派对,到底是谁出的鬼主意?<br />你我也摸不着头脑,为何会有这个派对?<br />出席者有羞涩的,有自High的,有不停对着电话上网的,有心不在焉心事重重的,更有来发泄的。<br />看了都觉得好笑,<br />重要是通过派对,大家能放松自己的神经。<br /><br />老毛病。。。个个姗姗来迟<br />音乐响起,渐渐传出越来越多人的歌声。<br />席上多是年轻人,唤醒我的‘青春’<br />音乐一首接着一首,开始感觉这副老骨头慢慢复活起来。<br />凑凑热闹也来几首,就这样你一首,我一首。。。<br /><br />这样的派对,<br />中国茶取代了酒精<br />零食取代了香烟<br />大麻变成了卡拉OK<br />大家还是一样玩得尽兴,满足。<br />时间飞逝,<br />灰姑娘灰先生们的水晶马车就快变回原形,<br />大家打道回府。<br /><br />曲终人散。。。<br />心想:“有些事不趁年轻做,老来怎樣回忆当年?”<br />盼你们和我一样,好好珍惜现在拥有的。<br />感谢你们依然还在身边。<br />和我一起分享。分担。@ltramannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09837135546431129497noreply@blogger.com0