珍惜眼前人

不高兴为什么男人总是爱逃避问题，更不高兴男人那么爱面子及喜欢自我为中心。
(在这里我并不是想"一竹竿打翻一条船")
我自认自己还蛮大男人性格。。。大男人性格是不是往往会变成爱情的“毒药”？
常常不由自主地做出伤害到对方的事情，往往太自私或自我为中心。
这些我都知道，但我就是常常明知故犯，讨厌自己患有这种坏习惯及性格。

昨晚和学姐谈到关于这方面的事情。学姐最近感情碰上瓶颈，十分不开心。了解问题后，我心里有股莫名的愤怒。
为何男人不果断些？
为何男人总是喜欢把所有事都收在心里而不摊开来讲？
为何男人会那么自私及拖泥带水？

此刻觉得学姐好委屈，好无助！
尤其听到学姐说的“除非是他做了决定，否则我是不会放弃的”
听到这里，我敬佩学姐对爱情的执著，但又觉得好悲哀，好被动及好盲目。
我无言以对，不知如何安慰她或给任何的建议。。。
无论如何，希望学姐可以好好生活，先为目标打拼。
反正感情的事情嘛！可是双方面的，所谓“一只手掌是拍不响的”
也许面对面才能解决问题。
学姐我祝福你！

“珍惜眼前人”，我是知道的。。。。。。　

House "Burning" party

This is Dr. Neoh's House Warming party.... can call it as "MUST" gathering as well.....

(Thanks to Dr. Neoh for making the effort to arrange this gathering)

He is my X-coursemate and also X-roommate......

Our last meeting is probably one year ago and i wonder has our friendship change in anyway?
Glad to see him with his warmest smile and become better and better (haha.... i mean get richer since he can effort to buy a few houses... ... "to all ladies... he is still single and available")

Dr. Neoh's new house at level 19... ...

Simple food... recall some of my memories of the past... ...

we study together

tortured by grandpa "mou" together

go to 'k' at least once a week...

shopping together

having our enjoyable time together.........

"Ting Jie" Style drink....... weird cocktail (sweet + sour + gas)

View from the balcony (taken at 6pm) Wah! Sunway pyramid!

Taken at 10pm

I am looking forward our next gathering... ...

书的新家

很难得能在星期六睡到自然醒。。。

（但也只不过是睡到八点而已，习惯早醒嘛！贱命！）

这么早醒要干嘛呢？

“收拾房间”

特别是在我房里无所不在的书本（因为书橱已经满了）。。。

我喜欢书，所以喜欢买书，阅读书，更喜欢收藏书。

从新把书从新整理，分类，然后为它们找个新家可是一种乐趣。。。？

最后。。。。。。选择把墙架当成新书架！够有创意吧！！

当然还有两个之前已经满到不行的书橱。。。

书橱（一）

书橱（二）

收拾完毕。。。感觉好痛快！！看着那些书，我觉得我应该把它们“放进”部落格里，好好介绍我所看过的书。。。不错的点子吧？？

HaRi RaYa PaRtY

As an annual event, MARDI will host a HARI RAYA PARTY for all the "Mardian".......

This is my fisrt time to join this kind of function...... A lot of food to eat (but almost all spicy)

such as Laksa Johor, Lemang and Rendang, Sate and Nasi Impit, Roasted lamb, veggie, Fried potatoes, Mee soup, Ice Kacang and so on.......

Sate and Nasi Impit..... (Sorry... a bit messy and looks not so nice...bcoz haft way eating!!)

Laksa Johor (taste a bit like Asam Laksa.... not bad!)

Haha.... Cik Puteri Ayu busy to "tabao" and bring home for dinner......
VIP seat for Special guest.......Me? Just standing while eat.... :(
but it is fun tooooo....

After tried almost all the foods...... i start to feel guilty....why i eat a lot ??

Become heavier....What to blame??

As my X-coursemate said: "Age is inversely proportional to metabolism.. hence the older we get the fatter we become!"

I am totally agree with her...... I also found myself very difficult to lose weight recently......

Why we become fatter..... here is the list to blame:

1. Our food behavior (can't "tahan" to all delicious but "junk" food) ---can also blame "food advertising" as well!!

2. Lack of exercise (Because lazy to move!!!!! who volunteer to use the staircase instead of escalator or lift??) this is what we called as physically inactive......

3. Gene/Heredity?? That means you have "obesity gene" ....... i think this excuse can make you feel better... right.. not your fault what??

4. Emotion factor... like bored, angry, or stressed which tend to cause you to eat a lot......... especially chocolate and ice-cream......

5. Age... As we become older, our metabolism will slow down but the calories that we put in is not reducing..... then not tally lah!!!

So lady and gentlement...... please accept the reality that time pass so fast and cause you to put on weight!!!

A BelateD BiRthdaY GifT

A brand new SE W880i.... But is not for me....

A belated birthday gift to my dear....... :)

Thanks for your patience, caring and love......

i can feel it and i appreciate it...... i love you too!!

I NeEd 25 Hours A DaY

After a tiring working day, i was invited to join a birthday celebration a KTV in Klang....
This make me even tired when i reach home at 12.30am ...!!
I know i need to rest early but i can't..... Why!!!
I always think that sleeping earlier is a waste of time........ So i need 25 hours a day!!!!!!!!!

Happy birthday!!!

HappY HALLoWeeN

Actually i know very little about Halloween and i am always relate this festival with "Ghost day" (Sorry la.... im not christian)
Another thing i can think about Halloween is Jack-o'-Lantern which often carved into silly or scary faces.......

Browsing through internet i found that

"The Festival of Halloween is a celebration of the end of the fertile period of the Celtic Goddess Eiseria. It is said that when Eiseria reaches the end of her fertile cycle the worlds of the dead and the living interlap. This happens on October 31. Masks are worn to show respect for the Goddess Eiseria who, like most Celtic deities, does not wish to be seen with human eyes. The day also preceeds All saints day, which was at first the celebration of the start of a new cycle of fertility for the celtic Goddess Eiseria. Couples incapable of producing children thus tried their luck on All saints day."

Halloween is very popular in Ireland and hope that i can go there to experience the celebration of Halloween.......

蝉 CiCaDa

通常只能听到蝉声，但未能看到蝉身。。

这次终于让我看见了它的庐山真面目。。。

各位观众.......

哈哈，远看还真像只苍蝇。。。（请原谅小弟的孤陋寡闻）

细心观察后，发现它有一双十分精致的翅膀。。。（虽然样子长得有点丑）

无聊的我在这时候想起了一些名句：

“明月别枝惊鹊，清风半夜鸣蝉” 还有还有。。。

"螳螂捕蝉，黄雀在后"！！

还有最后一个。。。。“但愿人长久,千里共《蝉》娟”（哈！够无聊吧？！！）

StaY OnE NiGht at Genting For FrEE

26/10/2007 3:00pm Went to Genting Awana

27/10/2007 10:00am Back from Genting Awana

This was the shortest time i spent in Genting since my first visit to Genting.........

"Awana" was the place i stayed

(Thanks to MARDI biotech. Center for a free accomodation, BBQ dinner and breakfast)

A standard room with a few large mirrors (i called it magic mirror because i look slimmer from the mirror! hehe), and also cupboard, table, tv, fridge, hair dryer.......

Double bed (I share this room with my "brother" PolarSiong)

A coffee table and balcony behind......

View from the balcony.....

Dinner by the pool (sorry la... a bit dark)

This is my boss (blowing the balloon) ... playing games during dinner