‘记性差’是为了让自己内疚少一点

又来到星期日了，答应这个礼拜交货的我到现在还没开始动笔！
看起来很有责任感，工作又很认真的我，其实记性真的很差！
有时候用电脑同时进行几样工作，就会忘记之前自己做了什么！
有时候讲话讲到一半，也会忘了自己到底想表达什么？
偶尔生病的时候，更会忘了吃药（特地忘记的，讨厌吃药！）
更夸张的，明明结了婚还会忘了自己的另一半
（这边指的并不是我到处沾花惹草，而是我会忽略她的感受和忘了安排时间陪她。）

今天的时间我又安排给了青运。
青运一年一度的代表大会终于在今天顺利完成。
青运仁嘉隆支会新届理事也在今天产生。
主要的职位没有多大变化，
最大的变化应属委员阵容。
在11名委员中，出现了9个新脸孔。
恭喜第一次进入理事阵容的同志。
接下来的两年就靠你们了！
至于青运县会的事情。。。
我还是选择暂时忘记。
不想给自己太多压力。
不想说太多话。
现在这个年纪，不时会回想十年前或更久之前的事情。
发现要维持热情，比放弃一件事情更不容易！ 晚间时间原本安排出席弟弟毕业典礼后陪老婆看电影。
最后变成毕业典礼后，逛街买东西。
对不起，老婆。
我们又看不成电影了！
看！很多时候总是计划比不上变化。
也许要等到有一天，在没有特地安排下我们才有机会一起到电影院看戏。

Lets get it start!!

说来惭愧，已经好长一段时间没上来这里。

就算上来也没留下任何脚印。

对不起，我的部落格。

这些日子我的却很忙。

忙得一天24小时都不够用。

现在的我更是夜鬼一个，每天不到半夜2点钟都不会上床睡觉。

我想是时候做出些些改变。

除了早睡，我应该继续之前的想法，把生活的点点滴滴都记录下来。

好让将来的我可以从部落格里回味曾经的一切。

进入人生的新阶段，感觉自己成长了不少。

现在的我更积极生活，更珍惜时间，更懂得体谅。

两个人的生活是一种挑战，但我就是喜欢。

这种感觉证明我之前的担心都是多余的。

喜欢和你在一起谈心的感觉。

偷偷告诉你，

每天早上当你去上班时，

我竟然会不自觉地喜欢床上你留下的余温和气味。

很傻吧！

感觉这是不像我的我！

说到床，以前都是一个人睡着双人床，
床上有我亲切的枕头和抱枕，柔软的被单，
每天抱着他们入睡的感觉是多么的舒服。
还记得某某晚上感觉无聊，特地睡在中间，然后用身体任摆不同的英文字母。
自己会心一笑，原来一个人在床上也可以独享乐趣。
但是，
一个人的双人床，
明显感觉少了些温度和温暖！
又或者少了些安全感，导致每天醒来的早晨总会缩得像蚕宝宝一样。
告别一个人的双人床，
感觉至少是幸福的。

七夕的气息

喜欢FB就是因为它会时常提醒我关于朋友的生日或一些重要的日子。
我自认对数字并没什么好感。
从小到大，只要有数字的东西，我都背不好。
数字比如车牌号码，电话号码，生日日期等等，
（包括Dear的电话号码--背死都记不到）
都会令我十分头痛。
但庆幸我还记得Dear的生日日期啦。

言归正传，今早打开FB就看到很多朋友的status都写七夕情人节快乐。
对！今天是七夕情人节。
突然觉得FB到处充满浪漫的气息。
脑里第一出现的画面是牛郎和织女。。。
同时不自觉地从裤袋掏出手机，
发送了一个信息给Dear。
简单的几个字，代表我对你的感觉。
七夕节快乐！我爱你！

同时也愿天下有情人终成眷属！
还没有另一半的，早日结束单身生活。

感觉对了

今天 感觉对了
今天 自然醒 没有一点倦意
今天 好开心 没有一点慵懒

全身灌注把手头上的一切事物办完
身体的担子好像一下子轻了许多许多

今天 见到了她
今天 她很漂亮

喜欢她的自信
喜欢她的成熟
越来越喜欢她

一起对着电脑荧幕
一起欣赏我们的结晶
心里莫名燃起幸福的感觉
虽不是第一次
但不知为何
心跳加速，脸烫烫的

爱。。。。。。

怀念我的阿公

清明时节雨纷纷，路上行人欲断魂。
借问酒家何处有？牧童遥指杏花村。

清明节给我的印象并不深，原因在于我不曾为祖先扫墓。
没扫过祖先的墓并不代表不孝顺。
华人算是蛮迷信的民族。
自我懂事以来，我就被家人告知说我们这些子孙不可以去扫公公的墓。
“为什么不可以？”
小时的我就一直把这个问题放在心上，
长大后，也只是模模糊糊从婆婆口中得到一些答案。
原因好像是公公在破月去世，故后代不能去祭拜。
听得我都懵嚓嚓。。。
无论如何，
扫不扫墓，也无所谓。
重要的只是我们（后代）应该时时刻刻都怀念他，
他在天之灵也会感受到的。

悄悄地，心里突然怀念起去世的公公。。。
虽然他死时我还是小孩，但在我记忆里，
我还记得他逗我笑，和我玩耍，把我放在他脚上荡秋千。。。

说回正题，今天参加了娜的家庭活动--扫墓。
早上独自驾车到娜的老家（娜提早回去做准备），
她的家人还是那样热情。
祖先的墓就在老家附近的榴莲园里，
大家各忙各的，有说有笑。
我也没等闲过，
因为我忙着打蚊子！
园里的蚊子多得恐怖，我们的到来好像为它们送上丰富的大餐。。。
不到几分钟，我全身上下就多了好多个‘包’。
拜祭完后回到老家，等着大家的是丰盛的午餐。
第一次的扫墓经验（也没真正帮上什么忙）
感觉还不错，就像个热闹的家庭聚会。

Im NoveMber BirThday bOy

I think it is the time for me to 'reactivate' my blog after two very busy months....
November is a special month for me because I was born in the month of November.
A thousand thanks to my friends who still remember my birthday and also facebook birthday reminder system!!
Thanks for your wishes.....
Thanks to MUST gang who buy me a dinner and present......
And not forget my dear!!
Thanks for your 'surprise', creativity and 'heart'......
I promise i will love you more!!

On the day of 22nd November 2009,
A beautiful Sunday morning.....
Wake up early and start my regular sunday activities until afternoon!
Take a good nap and waiting for the surprise from dear...
Went to fetch her and follow her navigation....
"Turn right, drive slowly, go straight, follow this lane............."
Finally, we reach our destination--- Look out point, Ampang!
OMG, this is the place that I wanted to go, but always simply 'talk' and never action!

I've known about this place before it has become so famous nowadays....
This place was getting too much publicity until it was so crowded during weekend.
Due to the rainy season, It seems not too crowded when we reached there.
We were greeted upon arrival by breezy cold winds and mist...
Here, we were able to see the beautiful night-scene of whole Kuala Lumpur.
We chose a restaurant and took a table at the side where we were able to see the view without any blocks.

So surprise that my birthday cake for this year was a bunch of 'lovely' cup cakes......

Make a wish and hopes that I can celebrate my birthday with my dear every year......

Anyhow, look Out point is a perfect hangout place for young and old people.

The skyline of Kuala Lumpur city from here is simply stunning and breath-taking!!

我要把老婆仔娶回家

再过几个小时就是她的生日了。。。
礼物及一切都准备就绪，就只是想不到一个理想的地点来庆祝！

今晚的她需出席朋友的结婚晚宴，故不能和我来个烛光晚餐。。。
我也只能当她的车夫送她去出席晚宴，然后等到晚宴结束后陪她一起倒数生日。。。
之后再给她一个惊喜！

好紧张哦！
祝福我！

我希望:
从今以后，在你身边陪伴你的人是我，
几年以后，你那精灵小孩的父亲也是我，
五十年以后，和你手牵手走沙滩回忆往事的人还是我，
一百年以后，你我化为尘埃，和你一起飘扬的同样是我，
请相信我，我的承诺跨越前世今生，直通未来。

<情书>

《宝贝》

和你在一起已有一段日子，感谢你的爱和陪伴，
让我不再《寂寞在唱歌》。
和你在一起，我是觉得幸福的。。。
对你也《不得不爱》！不知你也是如此？

在《最想念的季节》，打开相簿，看到我们所经历的点点滴滴，
那感觉是《甜蜜蜜》的。。。
最重要的还是《我知道》《我就是喜欢你》。。。
真的《超喜欢你》

我不敢给你太多《承诺》。。。不是因为我不《喜欢你》，
而是因为我怕让你失望。。。
正如你所说的：“希望越大，失望就越大。”
我知道失望的感觉不好受！

不过，我希望让你知道《爱你不是两三天》，
你是我《独一无二》的《情人》。。。
请《相信》我，《我比想象中爱你》。。。
《我愿意》《陪你一起老》。。。

希望你我永远都是一对《幸福恋人》，更希望《今生你做伴》。
最后，我只想对你说。。。。

有待后续。。。

GeT awAy On MiNi VaCaTion

Location: Cameron Highland, Pahang

Date: 13rd September 2009- 14th September 2009

This vacation was just in the right time where I can relax myseft......

And escape from the heavy workloads......

Too many jobs come together and each told me to put them at priority!

Sigh!

Forget about all those annoying stuff....

I started my journey to Cameron Highland with Dear and her family......

Cameron Highland (not new to me as I been there before)

One of the Malaysia most attractive tourist spot with its unique cool climate weather and its lush greenery montane jungle forest.

Apart from tourist spot, this serene highland is still a farming community.

We have a chance to visit tea plantation, vegetable farm, flower valley and not to miss the strawberry farm. (Thanks to 杨先生夫妇和他们的仔仔 for their warm welcome and hospitality)

Standing high on the hill, you can feel the gentle breeze on your face.

I love the environment and the breathtaking scenery.You can see flowers everywhere in this place......Nice!

Strawberry farm (you can pluck the strawberry yourself, but of course you need to pay) Veggie farm with variety of vegetables...... cabbages, brocoli, cauliflowers, tomatoes, legumes, sweet corns, spinach.......and all you can name it! Hydroponic salad crops are placed in the greenhouse!

Greentea maze at Cameron Highland. This place was owesome and have a very nice view.Finally, a group photo and its time to say bye bye to Cameron!

周末“逛”加星山

又到了周末。。。
平时的周末，我都必须把全部的时间留给工作。

难得这个周末清闲，赶快把应该完成的事情搞妥。

心血来潮的我约了她陪我到Bukit Gasing‘行山’。。。

一来想找更多时间陪她，

二来我实在很久没有到户外行动了，

三来我讲要到Bukit Gasing去也讲得实在太久了（不想让别人有机会讲我就只会光说不做）

Bukit Gasing加星山

它位于吉隆坡和八打灵之间，其中有93公顷在雪州管辖范围，而另外的298公顷则在吉隆坡管辖范围。

还蛮惊喜的，位于吉隆坡这片黄金地带竟然会保留酱大片的绿色原始森林。

我们选择了傍晚6点开始“逛”森林。。。

（建议可以选择早上或不迟过傍晚５点到哪儿去，太夜会导致出来时天色已黑）

加星山其实不难爬，大约一小时办就可以完成整个路程。

话不多说，就看看那里到底有什么可以看咯！

１。大自然（这是每个城市人都渴望接触的）

２。当然是野生动植物咯

３。瞭望台（让你将八打灵的城貌尽收眼帘）

４。吊桥

５。凉亭等等等

森林就好像一间开放式的教室，“学生”们可以尽情地挖掘想要知道的知识铺满枯叶的小巷，别是一番景象绿意昂然的大树就好像一把伞，帮我们遮挡酷晒的阳光竖立在林中央的红色瞭望台让我们有机会大饱眼福，将八打灵的城貌一览无遗人造小巷及阶梯引领我们探索森林的奥妙不算长的吊桥就坐落于出口处附近以后的路还很漫长，就让我们携手共度吧！

和她逛书市

今天大早起身回实验室上班（因为想要早走）。。。
一边驾车，一边打着瞌睡！
感觉好像好想再钻回被窝里大觉睡哦！
（不知为什么这两天总好像是睡不好，因为发一些奇奇怪怪的梦。。。而且醒来后，梦境的每个情节还会记得清清楚楚）这是不是说明了我睡得不够熟啊？

到了实验室后，赶快把今天该完成的工作干完。。。
然后就开开心心地去和我的她会合。
除了出国旅游，我们平时都很少乘坐公共交通。。。
今天我提议乘坐轻快铁出外拍拖，地点就是之前决定的KLCC书展！（哈！去书展拍拖啊？）
今年的书展好像比去年搞得更有规模，更完善。。。
除了华文书，今年也多了好多英文及国文书。。。
付完门票后，拿到一份导览手册。
导览手册比往年还要厚，资料也比往年多。
会展的摊位，书本的归类及排位也十分整齐，一目了然！

一进入会场，我们先逛英文区。
平时鲜少买书的她竟然一口气买了三本书。。。（还不是因为最近的她迷上了珠子手工艺）
逛完英文区，我们‘跳过’国文区（Paiseh!本人实在是对国文书不感兴趣）。。。
这次书展展示最多的还是中文书。。。
主办单位还很细心地将华文书籍区分为新马馆，香港馆，台湾馆及中国馆。
在这里逛了大约两小时，两手当然不可能空空的。。。
总不可能不为我家的书橱增添新成员吧。。。
最后花了大约两百多零吉。。。买了十本书。。。
对今天的收成还蛮满意的！（但还是有蛮多书想买的！）
这届的书展，除了书本，会场还有贩卖零食，饼干和文具。。。
（如果看到大家手里拿着一袋袋的饼干零食从会展走出来，你千万别感到惊讶哦！）

手上拎着重重的新书，再加上她买的饼干零食。。。
手拖着手，一起搭上轻快铁回去拿车。。。
一路上的她嚷着肚子饿了，最后到我俩的至爱嘛嘛档用膳。

回到家，已经是很夜了!
不想明天又没精神上班，现在还是乖乖上床休息吧！

OuR ThiRd DaY iN BanGkoK 14/04/2009

The third day in Bangkok was about Shopping, Shopping and Shopping......
Thailand recently has been developing rapidly, as what we can see from its transportation system and all the modern buildings in the city!
As what I know, Bangkok is now one of the Shopping paradise in Asia...
Therefore, visit Siam square become a must during this trip especially going with a 'moderate' frantic shopaholic (guess who? My dear lo...)hehe!!

Wake up quite late in the morning (to recharge more energy for shopping)
After took our breakfast, we were heading toward Siam Square.
Due to the red-shirt demonstration, there were army at the BTS station.....
Both of us pray hard for peace and for the shopping centre to start operate today.
(Most of the shopping centre closed yesterday due to the tense situation in Bangkok)
Our first stop was the popular Erawan Shrine for good luck and good fortune!Haha! Luck is on our side because most of the shopping centre open today!
Like Bintang walk in KL, most of the shopping center here are in the walking distance to each other...And some of it are linked up with sky bridge.
Let see if I can list out all the shopping mall here:
Central World, Emporium, Gaysorn Plaza, Siam Paragon, Erawan Centre, Siam Discovery Center, Siam Centre, MBK centre and .......you can name it.....Naraya is the shop which i can't forget......
Why? The place was packed with people especially ladies.....
People just grab like its free and shop like crazy here!!
Anyway, this shop offer nice bags with reasonable price!
Shopping, Shopping and Shopping.....
Until dinner time......See what we have for our dinner in the shopping complex?
Thai Food? Nope!
Its western food!
As recommended by my friend, this restaurant offer nice western food with reasonable price...
So we just give it a try......
My comment on the food: Not bad lo... Just like TGI Friday here with cheaper price!

What a lovely coincidence, we were at Bangkok at the time Thais celebrating Songkran Festival!
The street was packed with foreigner and local people......
Cars can't move because of crowded people who are playing water and dancing on the road......
Bangkok is definately a bargain shopping paradise.
The picture below says everything....Anyway, this was a nice trip and hope I will come back again!

OuR SeConD Day In BanGKok 13/04/2009

After the buffet breakfast (included as part of our hotel package), we continue our second day trip in Bangkok---We went to possibly the most famous tourist attraction in Bangkok- Grand Palace. We took a boat from Sathorn pier where near the BTS Saphan Taksin.

From the pier, you can go to quite a few of tourist spots such as Wat Po, Grand Palace, Wat Arun, China Town and so on.

(You can go to the counter at Sathorn pier if you wish to buy the ticket of one day river pass for unlimited ride or you can choose to buy one way ticket on the boat to any pier you want).

We chose to buy the one day pass ticket which cost us 125THB per ticket.

(Sad to say buying the ticket for day trip is not worth it, because you might not be able to visit so many places in a day. Anyway, we enjoy the sightseeing along the river road......)

Unique boat cruise along the river. It is one of the most important mode of transport for both locals and tourists)

Surprise to see a Chinese Pagoda along the river...The good thing to cruise along the river is that you get to see many landmarks and bridges such as Rama VII Bridge, Sapan Phut, Wat Po, Temple of Dawn and Grand Palace. From the boat, we saw the silhouette of Wat Arun.Enjoy the breeze on your face as the speed of cruise increases......Get off at Pier Tha Tien and walk for around 10 minutes to reach the main entrance of Grand Palace. Before we reach the entrance, there was a people who trying to trick us. He started to talk to us and told us that Grand Palace was close due to Songkran Festival holiday in Thailand. He told us he could take us to go around other interesting places by his tuktuk.
Without any consideration, I refused the offer and suggestted to go around and see if that information was true. Conclusion, my dicision was correct. The Grand Palace was open. The Grand Palace has a very strict dresscode, but you can 'borrow' appropriate clothes with B100 as deposit. We went to the ticket counter and pay B350 each before enter the Palace. Impressive wall painted with Ramayana scenes Grand Palace with the famous Phra Sri Ratana Chedi TowerThe Grand Palace of Bangkok is one of the most beautiful architecture I have ever seen. Within the palace complex are several impressive building including Wat Phra kaew, Dusit Phra, Chakri Mahaprasat Hall and other ceremonial buildings.

"Golden" colour covered most of the building here. It seems like everything here glitters. I like the textures and statues around the Palace especially the demon guardian in front the door.

From the temple, we walked to Grand Palace Hall. A giant European style building. I like the ball shape tree in front of the Hall.....Just wonder how they prune the tree.... Take a photo with the royal guard standing on the gate entrance.After hanging here for around two hours, We decided to proceed to our next destination.

On the way back to the pier, we saw one big family having fun throwing or shooting the water among each other or to the people passed by. (Luckily we walk quite a distance from them) Took a ‘自恋照’while waiting for the boat.Our next destination was Wat Pho. Wat Pho is known for its gigantic reclining Buddha and its extensive collection of Buddha images.
It was quite challenge for me to take a shot without annoying other tourists. (This place was crowded with many tourists) And it was just too big and very difficult for me to capture the whole statue into a picture. Make a wish and throwing the coin into the bowl behind the giant statue while Dear choose to shower the little buddha for a good fortune.

There are lots and lots of towering structure like this (with a spike on top) around Wat Pho. They called these structures as Chedis. This is very unique because it was made of porcelain. We finished our so called cultural trip by 4 or 5pm and proceed to our 'shopping' tour then.